No Complaining Or Disputing

-October 7, 2024-

Good morning beloved, happy Monday,

“Do all things without grumbling or disputing.”

(Philippians 2:14).

Today’s text sounds easy enough, but in practice is extremely hard to do. Our nature is to complain about everything. We complain about people, circumstances, the weather, finances, school, work, and so much more.

The word complain is defined as, “a statement that a situation is unsatisfactory or unacceptable; an expression of grief, pain, or dissatisfaction.” Complaining gets us into more trouble; it sours our relationships and mars our testimony for Christ.

Imagine how Moses and Aaron felt in the wilderness with a bunch of winers and complainers. We detest it in others, but tolerate it in ourselves. What is the remedy for complaining? Thanksgiving of course. In stead of complaining, let us thank the Lord in and for everything.

Disputing is defined as, “to argue irritability or with irritable persistence.” It takes two people to have an argument, especially when both staunchly believe they are in the right. Talking things out peacefully and calming is what we should do. Again, it is easier said than done. The hardest phrase to say in the English language is, “I was wrong, please forgive me.”

I love the story of the two rams trying to pass through a tight spot on a mountain pass where only one could get by. At first they butt heads but all they get is a headache. Then all of the sudden, one lays down so that the other can pass over his body safely. Humility and the love of Christ helps us deal with difficult people and situations.

Let us learn to follow the example of Christ in the way we handle what comes up in life. Let love prevail in every detail. As Paul said in 1 Corinthians 13:7, [love] bears all things, believes things, hopes all things, endures all things.”

Have blessed giving thanks instead of complaints, being peaceful peacemakers instead of heated arguers. Stay safe and healthy.

Closing the complaint department and putting it out of business.

Dean

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